Is it expect nothing and you will never be disappointed or expect nothing and get nothing?

Is it expect nothing and you will never be disappointed or expect nothing and get nothing? I feel that if you expect nothing so you will never be disappointed not only are you blocking bad things but you are also blocking yourself from any good that you might be in for. Some definitions for insanity is senselessness and foolhardiness. My father once told me that the definition of insanity is to do the same thing over and over again expecting a different outcome. I think that defines a lot of people today. They do the same things over and over (their way) and think in some miraculous way that the out come is going to change. They hang with the same people who have done them wrong, they look for the same type of man that has broke their heart & they have the same type of thinking that has gotten them to the same place time after time. When you stop yourself from feeling you are stopping all feelings and some of them are to good to let pass. So I guess I am saying i f you expect nothing you get nothing. You have to speak things into existence. Be careful what you think/say because someone is always listening; YOU! Expect the best for yourself, You should use your better judgement, if you feel like your life just can't get right look at your surroundings. What is most important to you and to those in your circle? It may be time to clean out your closet!

TTC